City or countryside is a life shape question wearing the costume of a location question. That is why it can sit at the back of your mind for years without resolving, and why two reasonable people can want opposite things with equal certainty. The City or Countryside Wheel puts the two of them on a wheel with nothing else on it, so the conversation has somewhere to start instead of another loop.
City tends to mean walking to things, a job market, people you did not plan to see, noise, and rent that takes the good out of a salary. Countryside tends to mean space, a garden, a quiet that takes a week to get used to, a car for every errand, and a smaller set of options where the ones you do have get properly used. Both are trades rather than upgrades.
Be clear about what this is. A wheel cannot price a commute, find you work, or move a family, and it is not advice about where to live. It is a prompt. Spin it with someone and watch what happens next, because the arguing that follows a result you did not want is usually the most honest conversation you have had about it in months.